In this episode, Dr. Kate and Hope Ray discuss Hope’s new model for understanding chronic infidelity that positions it as violence. Dr. Kate and Hope talk about the definition of betrayal violence, which is not usually physical violence, but emotional violence. It is about keeping secrets from your partner on an on-going basis, and always denying any allegations. Hope Ray, LPC CSAT CHFP CCPS is a therapist and founder of the Betrayal Violence Institute (BVI).