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Trauma and Betrayal Violence with Dr. Kate and Hope Ray

Mar 29, 2024


In this episode, Dr. Kate and Hope Ray discuss Hope’s new model for understanding chronic infidelity that positions it as violence. Dr. Kate and Hope talk about the definition of betrayal violence, which is not usually physical violence, but emotional violence. It is about keeping secrets from your partner on an on-going basis, and always denying any allegations. Hope Ray, LPC CSAT CHFP CCPS is a therapist and founder of the Betrayal Violence Institute (BVI).

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Dr. Kate Balestrieri, host of Modern Intimacy, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist, helps people live more fulfilled lives by shattering stigma and erasing shame. Dr. Kate invites you to join her as she investigates the relationship between sex, mental health, relationships and modern society.


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