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Find a Sex Therapist in NYC & All New York

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Want to Work With a Sex Therapist in NYC?

If your sex life, marriage, intimate partner or even your own sexuality feels misaligned with what you truly desire, we can help. Sex counseling is like regular therapy but with an intentional focus on the areas of your sex life and sexual activity that feel like they need care to thrive. 

Therapy does not involve physical touch. It is a conversation with an individual therapist intended to explore the heart of your challenges and use skill building and tools to help you create the sex life you most desire.

Sex therapy can be done as individual therapy or as a couples therapy. Couples sex therapy can be incredibly helpful for exploring complex topics like sexual satisfaction, mismatched libidos or sex drive, past sexual trauma, opening up a relationship, improving communication, reducing stress and more.

Tell Me About Your Sex Therapists in NYC

Wherever you reside in the state of New York, you can work remotely with our private practice New York City sex therapists via our telehealth services. We offer sex therapy via individual therapy and couples therapy for anyone looking to improve their sex life, heal past sexual or emotional trauma, and work through obstacles that are interfering with a healthy and happy sex life.

This isn’t to say that your sex life needs to be “fixed”. It’s more about giving you (and your partner) insight, grace, deeper connection and healing around the sexual issues that feel stuck or misaligned with who you are.

Working with a clinical psychologist or mental health professional who specializes in sex therapy can be liberating for many reasons. Including exploring different desires, fantasies, and suggestions for what you and/or your partner can do to have the most pleasurable, authentic, and great sex life.

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What therapeutic styles do your sex therapists use in sessions?

Our sex therapy training and clinical expertise centers on a holistic approach. Our sex therapists use a wide range of therapy styles for individual + couples counseling including:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
  • PACT Couples Therapy
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Somatic therapies
  • Mindfulness
  • Insight oriented therapy
a happy couple after a session with a sex therapist in nyc
happy couple who works with a sex therapist in nyc

Here’s a range of sexual issues and challenges our sex therapists can help you with:

  • Low or no sexual drive
  • Sexual dysfunctions that impede sexual satisfaction
  • Difficulty with orgasm
  • Pain during sex
  • Sexual performance anxiety
  • Exploring sexual orientation and gender identity
  • Building healthy communication and boundaries around sex
  • Sex addiction
  • Porn addiction
  • Working through sexual trauma
  • Overcoming sexual guilt and shame, including purity culture trauma
  • Intimacy after betrayal trauma
  • Sex after childbirth
  • Exploring kink and alternative dating lifestyles
  • Male Erectile Dysfunction

What can a couples sex therapist in NYC help with?

Couples sex therapy can be incredibly liberating and supportive to help couples revive, and ultimately thrive in their intimate life together. Whether you’ve been together for a long time, or your a new couple sex therapy will change how you communicate with your partner(s) about your needs, wants, desires, and emotions by helping you talk about sex in a way that feels safe and aligned with your values.

Couples sex therapy often includes discussions around:

  • Mismatched sexual desire
  • Techniques for improving pleasure
  • Establishing sexual boundaries
  • Introducing kink or BDSM to the bedroom
  • Improving communication around sex
  • Supporting a partner with sexual trauma history
  • Navigating sexual and emotional safety after betrayal trauma
  • Concerns about sexual functioning
  • Exploring alternative dating or coupled lifestyles
  • Lack of sex in your relationship (and how to increase/add/adjust)

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I’m ready to talk with a sex therapist in NYC. What’s next?

It’s important to note that sex therapy will never include any form of physical or sexual touch. Sex therapists help their clients work through sexual concerns and curiosities, but Modern Intimacy sex therapists will never engage in physical or verbal sexual acts with clients.

If you have additional questions about sex therapy in NYC or want to work with one of our sex therapists, please schedule a free 30-minute consultation.

We’re happy to answer any questions so you can get started on a healing journey today.


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